Cheaters. Is lies so awful?

Why do our mothers always teach us to tell the truth, only the truth and they forget that all of us live in the atmosphere of lies and distrust whether we want it or not. Sometimes even in the most ridiculous situations lies helps even though to tell the truth would be more honest and reasonable. Let’s recall very common example that is still popular: the husband returns from business trip… Do you remember the rest?

Sometimes lies is so diverse, and you can confuse a person so much that he blindly starts believing that impossible can come true.   

Dear women, try to recall how naive and credulous  we can be, how much we can trust our man who returns home after seeing another woman again, and declaims how busy he was, is outraged by the fact that his project was declined.

Clever women prefer to pretend that they sincerely believe that a man is a polygamous creature, he will be unfaithful anyway, so it’s better to seem a fool and give him another opportunity to be proud of himself thinking how he managed to wind his wife round his little finger. And a silly woman will make a row rising his mistress in his estimation (the latter doesn’t make rows, throwing herself on him), she will abase herself again, turning into a quarrelsome woman.

In such  a situation I would advise to stick to a golden mean: you shouldn’t play a forgiving great  martyr (constant guilt can lead to mental disorder), but to keep silence, cherishing your indifference done for show is also not advisable. It’s better  to use the tactics of transparent hints, that will keep him in the state of constant emotional tension.

There is also such a thing as white lie. But it’s hardly right and rational. The most vivid example of it is doctor’s lies. What is more humane: to tell a person about his mortal disease and forthcoming death or to leave some hope for a happy ending  in his heart. But I’m not going to impose my opinion, it’s up to you to decide.

They also say that more often people lie after hunting and fishing, at war time and, of course, before election. It’s said that there are such people for whom it’s a kind of a disease. They can’t help lying. Lies help them and the people who surround them to take the edge off everyday  life.

A man meeting a woman will certainly make up some story (especially if he is sure that he sees this woman for the first and last time) then be careful not to faint at the honor to meet such an exceptional person – you definitely have met a millionaire and maybe even a billionaire who’s got dozens of cool cars and penthouses in all parts of the world!)

Men lie to charm us. What for do women lie? (It’s useless to ask them why, they won’t tell the truth anyway, so my answer for this question will be based on my guesses.) They lie mercilessly to conceal the truth. It’s evident.

Not a single woman will sincerely answer even her best friend’s question, how much does she weight (it’s the most thorny subject), how old is she, (starting from 25, they subtract one, two or three digits), where did she find a new boy-friend (we don’t share such secrets!), how much do her new shoes cost (she will always raise the price to make her friend envious and to disincline her), whether her husband is unfaithful (to admit it means to strike a devastating blow  on her sexuality), how many men did she have(here some women raise the number, others understate, but nobody will tell the truth) and why is she constantly lying (“Don’t talk like this, I always tell you the truth”!)!?

As for lies addressed to men, for women it has become a kind of sport: the more tense is the game on the field and closer is the moment of exposure, the more exciting turn the game takes.

The most important thing is to take the prize and not to get confused what is true and what is false: a liar should have a very good memory.  A piquant situation comes to my mind, in which a husband became tangled in lies:

Night time. A wife tired after a working day is lying in her bed, she doesn’t wait for her husband already to be in time. But he suddenly appears and without asking for supper he throws himself on his spellbound wife with incredible energy of a Spanish macho … After an hour of wild sex a husband suddenly sits up in bed and says: “Well, I have to go home”. What a blunder indeed.

I have said so much and have invented so many things. But as they say a good story mustn’t be true. You can’t give only one answer: to lie or not to lie: the situation will show. But you should remember that even insignificant lie can cause irreversible consequences. Every person should feel good no matter whether you tell truth or lies.